MyPUAJourney Forum

Hey what's up.

I am a 18 years old guy living in sweden. Since my birth I have always been a shy guy. For example, when I'm talking to my friends I am like a endless pit of talk. But there is a but.
When one or more people that I do not know joins the conversation it seems like the stranger fills my pit in an instant. I change into mute mode.
Luckily the shyness has reduced and I can spit out some words but that is it.

Enough about my flaws.

I am so happy that I found this site & forum! It's very inspiring to see normal people like me (more or less) succeed!

I have been watching the videos and reading the forum for quite some time, 2weeks+ EVERYDAY. But I have never put anything into practice in the real world.
I get really motivated though but that is at night. When there's no possibility for me to get my scared ass outside. Therefore I cannot sleep. I am just thinking of going out the next day to approach. But NO. I don't do it the next day. I suck >_<

I need to grow some balls and break out of my egg!

Welcome to the forum Phuc (fuck?) lol. anyway, i read in your post that you said you suck. You dont suck, saying that only keeps you in a negative mindset which you dont need if you plan on attracting women into your life. You just have to find the courage to do it in the day time since for whatever reason you cant do it at night.

ive been in that situation before, with time you will start to talk to people. Just don't give up.

just keep going out and getting comfortable with the environments you want to approach at. don't give up. it took me and MANY other guys out there a long time before we did our first approaches.

take a look around these forums and you're bound to see threads about our struggles. it's natural man, don't worry.

also, the staying up all night and thinking about approaching the next day is good. try to get your sleep, but at the same time, stay motivated and keep visualizing yourself approaching. it may sound dumb but give this a try. instead of just imaging yourself going out in the future, try visualizing yourself approaching a hot girl and pretend that you're actually recalling a memory from the recent past.

it's a bit of a NLP mind trick to where you pretend these approaches actually happened in the past so that you can think, well if i could do it then, then i can do it now. just remember that your perceptions are your reality.