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Did the nipple test on 10 girls and all just blew me away....:>

canibus1990 wrote:ski mask is not the best thing to wear when walking around. impressions of a robber is not a good thing to be associated wiht. but it s good to get comfortable with people starin at you. Cause being an attractive man, means people will noticce you.

the point of this exercise, is not to get girls, its to help you in the process of reducing your AA.

Screwed that one up, it was ski goggles not a mask. Yes the experience has left me totally tired, it was stressful to have everyone looking at you like you are a weirdo. But that's just it I am not sure if it actually helps receiving negative feedback from people. I mean we want to pick up women we should be practicing that, conversation skills. It seems to me like its not exactly the same thing. Jackcoxwell himself just started talking to women, which is also stressful at first. But he was practicing what he wants to get good at. Anyway not sure if they are related but I am tempted to go to mall with a pink wig on, just for fun to see if I can handle it. But I do not exactly see how it will help me with talking with women.

the idea tido, is that if you become comfortable in uncomfortable social situations, then you will better deal with the discomfort, or AA you experience when approaching and or talking with women.

ShaMaN wrote:the idea tido, is that if you become comfortable in uncomfortable social situations, then you will better deal with the discomfort, or AA you experience when approaching and or talking with women.

But it seems to me like an indirect way of dealing with AA. It's like you have the balls to be weird, but do you have the balls to be sexual and go after the woman you want, the two seem quite differed. Or are you suppose to approach women while wearing weird stuff? I am planing to wear a pink wig and go about my business, shopping or whatever. Just for to see peoples reaction and have some fun of their reactions. I m just not sure if this is the best method to stop carrying about peoples opinions, perhaps. I'll try it and let you know.

lol,, found this related to the topic at hand..
http://break.com/index/dude-goes-shoppi ... -mask.html

no, dressing weird isn't a necessity for gettin' the honnies, the idea is to get used to the various social reactions you will get from people from the negative (I.e. the robber stocking guy) to the positive (I.e. "OMG i love your shirt, its soo cool") If your comfortable with those reactions from strangers, then it makes strangers a little less strangers, and hopefully opens you up, and makes you much more friendly, and less afraid of them, in a sense, removing some aspects of AA.

I'm pretty sure its not the best way to deal with AA, but it is pretty good, 1. its action, which is always a positive, 2. it helps to remove some social anxieties that some people may have, and 3. it exposes you to strangers, which is of course important

the best way to deal with AA, is to stop thinking of it as an approach, reframe the situation, from "I'm going to approach this girl, and talk to her with the goal of either a) working on my pickup skills, or b) picking her up". instead frame it as "I'm going to go talk to a stranger, because I like talking to people, and they won't be a stranger anymore once I've been talking to them for a little bit.

ShaMaN wrote:the best way to deal with AA, is to stop thinking of it as an approach, reframe the situation, from "I'm going to approach this girl, and talk to her with the goal of either a) working on my pickup skills, or b) picking her up". instead frame it as "I'm going to go talk to a stranger, because I like talking to people, and they won't be a stranger anymore once I've been talking to them for a little bit.

Totally, in addition to that you also have to allow yourself to look foolish and make mistakes. The best way to do that is to not give a shit, or not taking peoples reactions personally because its their reactions and there is nothing you can do about it. Don't get me wrong you want to interaction to go well, but if it does not, well then you gained some experience and learned something new.

Tido

meh. tbh, I'm not impressed with the "make an ass of yourself knowingly to blast through aa". All that does is teach you to be able to either deal with negativity, or laugh at yourself and not take it too seriously - which you should be doing / able to do anyway.

I'm a practice makes perfect kinda guy. I think I can learn far more from just jumping into an attempted and possibly horribly botched PU, than putting myself intentionally into a non-realistic situation to see what it feels like.

If you want to see how people react to oddity, then by all means, go for it. if you want to have *most* women look at you like you're from another planet, by all means, ask em to touch your nipple, but again, to what end? Seems like social masturbation. That's just me though. I'm sure others will disagree.