MyPUAJourney Forum

hey guys im new to the forum but ive been on the site a lot. Im a college student and was wondering how i should go about gaming girls in class.. and if there is a different approach for big lecture classes and smaller classes.

Welcome greatdane.

I cant really help you as i have not been to college for sometime, and only learnt about game after it.

What i will say, is why bother game girls in your class or lecture hall. Why not focus on the girls throughout the college. There are a lot more. Reason why? it is similar to dating some one you work with all the time. IF you date it is fun. But when shit hits the fan, it is not fun. Classes with her in it will be a nightmare. You might end up not going to class to avoid her or her friends. Her friends will be bitches to you cause they will stand up for her.

The best thing to do, is just be social with people in your class, have fun with them, tease them, get to know them, go study with them, go out with them and their friends. Still be a MAN with her, not a nice guy (i.e. being friendly/fake just so you can have a chance of sleeping with her), but more a friend. Then when you go out and you see her, you will build social proof especially at a bar or club. She will also help with you girls. When you are out with her friends, you will know which are not in her class and you can game them.

Best thing is to do this with the most popular girl in your class, the girl that has the most friends in class, and gets along with a lot of people. But first you got to have your game right, be attractive first. So start dressing right, sort out your hygiene (teeth, body odour, hair etc), have goood body language and voice (practice these), improve your social game (know how to talk and connect and tease - practice these).

This is basically social circle game.

Hey great dane,

Welcome! I would HIGHLY recommend an Ebook called "CONQUER YOUR CAMPUS" by mark redman. It has by far the best advice about college game in the world! It is a jewel!

I am doing collegegame only. what I have done (and it works like a charm) is to make sure that there is always at least 2 girls that will come up to me and give me long hugs when I go the the college pub. there will usually be girls that I flirt with on regular basis there, but only friendly flirting. All this is to be socially profed. every year there will start new people on the uni. I have gotten enough friends that I will usually know someone that will be taking care of the new pupils, that way I have someone that will introduce me to many new girls at the start of the year, this ensures that I don't need any openers to start off a conversation.

to say it short: build socal network

I gotta agree with the previous advice. Use classroom game as an opportunity to build social proof. I say that not for the reason of avoiding a tough situation (as Cani mentioned) - I dated girls I had classes with 'back in tha day' (Im not in college anymore either) and as long as I wasn't an asshole to them, I never experienced any blowback in class that I considered insurmountable. That said, I may have just been lucky and the girls I selected weren't psychos. Canibus' advice is well heeded as a lot of girls are the proverbial wolf in sheep's clothing - or psychos in HB's clothing as the case may be.

I say don't bother with truly gaming a girl in class due to the distraction factor. It's like trying to game a girl in a club when the bartender comes over. When the staff is there, you become second on her list of importance out of necessity (she can't ignore paying for her drink to talk to you - no matter how awesome you are!) In class, you can pretty much count on interrupts that will mess with your ability to game as well as possible. For example, the teacher is always going to be more important than you are, as such, anytime he or she decides to address the girl, you are immediately back-burnered. As is a friend who has a question about homework, or anything class related. Those interrupts can make you look bad, and could display a lack of a social radar that could harm your game. Instead, Follow Canibus' advice, keep it light, practice the things he mentioned about body language, tonality, expressiveness etc, and IF you plan to game her, wait until you see her at an outside venue.

the others on here have mentioned some great advice, and i'm not gonna argue with it too much. they certainly make some good points about not gaming girls in class, but at the same time, i don't view this as a big problem. a semester isn't very long and i've never had a relationship end so badly that it bothered me to see her again. in fact i think the ability to face her and not feel bothered is a big part of not being needy and being dominantly unaffected. either way, avoiding the situation all together is still sound advice. it's best to add them to your social circle.

you'll find that the guys who get the most girls in college and the hottest ones usually have large social circles. they go out, get involved in stuff and make lots of friends - both guys and girls. as far as adding girls from class to your social circle, the smaller classes are always better. college is no different from grade school in the sense that once everyone finds a seat they like, the stick to it all semester long. in a lecture hall, you're now confined to talking the few around you. in a small class, you can get the attention of everyone easily by participating in class, talking before and after class, scheduling study groups, etc. small classes are much easier for this. labs are also awesome places to find girls to add to your social circle. most labs are geared around group work. find the hottest girl and get her in your group.

usually people get to class a good 5-10 minutes early and they either sit outside the door if it's locked (or there's another class in it) or they wait inside the class until the professor gets there. this gives you ample time to talk. if there's a test that day, people always get there early. this gives you plenty of things to talk about. then the next day you can just ask how the test went and go from there. either way, this is minor stuff compared the potential of college campuses.

the best bet is to get involved in stuff and meet as many people as possible. the best wing man you'll ever find is a girl who's friends with the girl you want. also know that the best time to meet new people with no reason other than just meeting new people is the first two weeks of the fall semester. there are new people everywhere and everyone is out looking to make new friends in their classes and elsewhere.

the best female friends i made in college were these three girl my friend and i just walked over to in the cafeteria on the first or second week of school. we sat down and just started talking. nothing planned, no reason for doing so other than to meet people. it turned out they lived in our dorm and they drove us back and i ended being great friends with the three of them from there on. that's how i first started expanding my social circle, which is the basis of college game.

Rhetoric idea of students normally sticking to one seat, is very true indeed. That is why you should be very active in the first week of term and get to build networks with lots of people. This iss what i did, i was well known throughout the halls and campus, but i got lazy and could not be asked to keep up with everyone. Not good.

What i find with people who go to college/university, is that they think they are all adults and act like adults when in fact they have very little experience, which is very funny.

I have also found out that here in england, must people who find there groups and stick with them, dont expand or meet other new people to be part of their social lives. This for me was not the case, i was in lots of different social groups, yet i was never really fully accepted in any other them. But i would hang out with them, do things, i would see them about and talk etc. This i gues is due to trust issues.

I guess all the things i did above, i should have got loads of girls, but i was crap at being social in terms of connecting, it was all very surface level, and i was a big time AFC with trust issues and women issues.

The reason why i say not to date girls in your class, is basicallly what qix said. But this is what i apply to my dealling withs co workers.