MyPUAJourney Forum

Not to be only about the negatives.... but I just noticed this.

Actually that's complete bullshit, I only like the negatives and that's all I'm about .

I saw you (the Jackster) put "Dating/Lifestyle Coach" at the end of some posts..... have you actually made this your profession.

Now before I ramble on about stuff nobody cares about, I'll just say what everyone knows:

What you do with your life is none of my concern, none of my business and it's all up to you.

That being said, thought I would just say what I think about "Dating Coaches".

I think TOO many people start learning this stuff, get good, and become dating coaches. Why does this have to become everyones life?

I'm sure it has been said by many "I just want to help people".... no you don't. These guys charge THOUSANDS. They aren't helping, their taking advantage of needy guys that are desperate for help. I'm not going to say it hasn't crossed my mind "Become good, teach, make thousands!". But is that what I want to do with my life... devote it to picking up girls?

Who knows, maybe 4 year old little Jack would say to his mom "Mommy, I want to teach guys how to get girls, get them home, and FUCK THEM HARD!" (BTW if you said that, I take it all back, your my hero, your my god, teach me!) .

But you seem like a really talented guy, quick learner. I just think it's a shame to use it for this instead of doing something else.

I wanted to do comedy, become an engineer! Sure, maybe I could make more money teaching guys to get pussy... but I'm sure I can use the skills I learn from this and get just as far as a comedian or engineer.

Anyway, I'm just some guy you know nothing about on a forum that only has 70 members. How important is my opinion really?

I don't even know why I'm posting this, but here it is, nice and long, might as well put it out there and hope it does something for someone.

Have a good one loves!

Well I mean watch season 2 of what Jacks doing, he is doing a damn good job.

I know I love to try help people as much as I can because I was once someone who needed help and when I reached out, people responded. So the least I can do is use the skills I acquired to help others.

Maybe Jack feels the same, I dunno.

Of course! I totally agree!

Helping rocks, giving people tips, going out with them for a day.

I'm just talking about when you take helping, up to teaching. Getting customers, they pay for you to help them, you go out with them a bunch and sell it as a service.

Slight difference .

I agree though, everyone should help each other out .

hey cobra i jus read ur comments.

I kinda agree with what you're saying. there's heaps of PUAs out there, all trying to make money. There's nothing wrong in making money i guess.

i've only been aware of this pickup shit for about a month. I haven't read any pick up books and i'm not going too.

i saw a few vids on youtube and thought i could do this too. i made a few approaches and started talking and got some numbers. it's not that hard..that what new guys don't realise.

it's actually easy. you approach a bitch and talk to her like she's ur friend.

u don't have to read any fuckin books or do any course. u just have to keep on approaching. if u practice you'll get better and better.

i know the people selling their courses and books would hate to read all i've written.

but if they can make money from it, well that's ok. this pickup stuff is becoming mainstream now and the money-making opportunities around it will slowly dwindle.

laters.

i think jacks doing a great job organizing this site

he is a dating/life coach.. that's what this website is about

i think jacks doing a great job organizing this site

Phew! Good thing I never said he wasn't, I can still be happy that nobody disagrees with anything I said.

he is a dating/life coach.. that's what this website is about

THAT'S WHAT THIS WEBSITE IS ABOUT?!?!?!

Why didn't anybody smack me in the face, kick me in the balls, call me a dumbass? I thought this site was a log of his experience (or "Journey") from AFC to MPUA. I should have known when I read "My PUA Journey" he meant "My PUA Dating Coach Services".

Fuck I hate looking like an idiot. I have this problem where when I see a guy post about his development as a person, videos of him sarging and says "The Documentation/ Video-Log of men with ZERO experience picking up women"....I think, this is a video log of a guy trying to get good. It's so obvious now that it's a site for Coaching.

Don't worry i'll go seek therapy or something.

Anyway, before I go, one last thing from me.

From chris, a comment in the Coaching section.

I wanted to start online dating, but my profile was unsuccessful and I was wondering why I wasn’t getting any messages back from any girl. Even worse, no girls would ever send me messages at all. I was about to give up, but then Jack helped my out with his coaching. He asked me a couple of questions and then helped me write a new biography for my profile. It’s been a week now and I’ve gotten tons of messages back. Better yet, my success rate at getting their number is 90%. On top of that, girls send me messages before I even check out their profiles, and all of them are above average. Jack is very knowledgeable and knows how to train people into picking up girls, either for picking up girls in person or online. Without his help, I would still be in the same spot I was a year ago, but now, everything has changed, I am more confident and less nervous when it comes to girls, thanks to him and his knowledge. Definitely recommended for those who want to pickup good looking girls.

.........HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Some shit just sounds a lot like a sales letter don't it?!

"It was so easy, he just asked me some questions, we typed this, typed that and now I'm getting hit on by hot girls and getting 90% of their numbers!"

I'm sorry if Chris is a real guy who had his life changed. But if he is he sounds like a fucking sales robot! He's calculating the fucking percent of his success! Computer?

I'm sorry guys, I know you all love this stuff and me pointing this out just makes me look like a dick. It just bothers me and I have to vent.

I've lost my faith guys. You guys can keep watching it and buying in, but I think it's time for me to say bye bye to "MyPUAJourney" and start my own Journey. One that doesn't have the same destination as this one.


I loved you all (ya it's gotta end). Good luck!

Cobrastyle

jackcoxwell wrote:I am a proud father of a 4 and a half year old.
I am in a band.
I am passionate about teaching personal fitness and nutrition.
I am currently learning programs such as NewTeks lightwave to produce 3d graphics.
I am an artist (sculpting is my favorite, drawing... not so much. I took art in college)
I am becoming a professional video editor, and currently am working on a film for a client.

This is one of the reasons I am so good at picking up women - I am a Multi-dimensional person. My interests are very broad.

This is actually one of the things most men do wrong, they do not lead interesting lifes outside of pick-up. I have so many other things going on in my life that I already am an interesting person without the "DHV" stories and thats whats attractive. Not the fact that you had ex-girlfriends who were strippers but that you are doing something with your life.

And to back up jacks point, I thought the videos would be easily produced until I did my own.

Linking up all the audio files to the video then editing it all fancy takes a hell of a lotta time. And as a fellow video editor I can definatly appericate the work Jack puts into it all.

He just doesnt upload a plain infield video, he almost creates a TV show of his own outta it which is amazing, his effort definatly shows.

Omg, I can't believe I'm back here.... you can cease your applause, it still might be the last.

#1 - My opinion on everything has been going down. First their was "Buy the book, only here, exclusive to us". I realize you didn't know, nevertheless that post hasn't changed to "Get it here and help us out".

Next it's coaching which I already tend not to think very highly of. But you want to coach, great it's your life. Then I start seeing Sales Letter type comments. It's like "This guy is trying to do coaching...and to encourage people it looks like his writting fake comments". You too said the comment looked like a sales letter.

As you can see it just seems one thing after the other. Maybe I'm just making it a bigger deal then it is, but in this business, when people pay SOOO much... I don't think people should be pushing things and trying to trick people.

#2 - Hahaha, don't worry I know it was never meant to be a dating site. I was being as sarcastic as possible.

#3 - The prices... 175$ an hour is not cheap. Maybe in this profession it is, but I hate how 175$ is as cheap as it get's. At the base of it, you get payed to go out and give them a boost knowing they have Jack around. Let's face it, people know the lines the methods, anything you tell them they've probably heard some form of it on the internet. You may be giving some other personal advice... but at the core it's just the confidence.

But to end this all off:http://www.theartofcharm.com/coaching.htm
These guys do the Pickup Podcast, host numerous gurus like Hypnotica, Carlos Xuma, Style and do an amazing job, they have a corriculum ON the site (not just "we'll see what you need and customize the mystery program to fit it)... and to top it all off, their coaching IS cheaper then yours.

#4 - I'm sorry... fuck that, I'm not sorry.... a guy that writes a sales letter to me is a sales robot. I didn't feel any personality or anything from the guy... just a sales letter like something I may see on some site that tells me I can make 3000$ dollars a second.

#5 - I'm glad to hear your pursuing so many things. I just get the impression a lot of these coaches make this the big thing in their life, they run around the city teaching bootcamps and talking about pickup. I'm glad to hear that it doesn't take away any time from your son or your other dreams.

#6 - (The bigness of this number is a metaphor for how big this point is! )

You wanted to inspire and you have! I don't know how much money, how much effort it takes, but fuck it cause I'm willing to find out. When I said I'm starting my own journey... I kinda meant it. Me and my buddy are making our own site.

I don't know what your expenses have been, for us so far it has been 20$ for the bag, 120$ (60$ each) for the site....ummm....that's it.

Call us and for 175$ we'll give you a 1 hour consultation on cutting costs .

The sites being made, we've shot the stuff for the trailer, the quality is good, were fucking going for it, CAUSE OF YOU!

I'm sure you'll be hittin that RSS to read all the blog posts and to watch our videos. The first one is going to show HOW HARD IT IS TO GET REJECTED! It's actually hilarious what we did... but you don't get special sneak previews.

Were going to let people vote on things they want to see us do in the videos, if people get in contact with us we'll let them come along and shoot with us (we can cover your face if you don't want identity to be shown). It's going to be all types of games, we'll try the methods, try the tactics and show what works. I know you said you wanted to do this... didn't really. If people have a routine or something they want us to try we'll do a episode just for that tactic.

ANYWAY! I can't believe I turned my back and now wrote sooo much! Omg, you guys love me too much, making me write you fucking stories for bedtime.

I'll keep an eye on this site though, you explain yourself each time I have an issue (even if it doesn't always tottaly resolve my concerns) so I will keep a shit sized piece of faith. Besides, they are great videos! .

Peace

PS - Hahaha, I think you owe me big time . I'm like the voice of all the concerned people who visit your site. The only useful feedback is negative!

Don't worry, it's my pay back for all the content.

What the hell? Hey bud, it just so happens that I am currently going to College and I am cultivated, mind you. Jack helped me tons, why would I write a wimpy little message, saying that he's helped and that's it? I am doing it because he's helped a lot. Because of him, I get tons of girls wanting to hang out with me, and before I got his training, I couldn't pick up girls for shit, even if my life would have depended on it. Get real guys, Jack is a good friend and is the real deal.

This is not a sales letter, that's a fucking insult to me and his services, geeze.

Chris

I've taken my reply down. I normally don't respond to negative comments, and now I remember why.

I wish you the best of luck.

- Jack.

Jack and scott (i think his name is) was doing this to help themselves sort this stuff out. one quit and the other carried on. He showed his some of his progress. this has helped a lot of guys out there. For me it showed that it is not all that scary talking to girls.

Once he got good he realised that it didnt depend on the materal used, but the belief in your self , inner game stuff, the lifestyle you lead etc. he was right, there are loads of guys selling a lot of crap out there. some of the stuff is really good. some of it has some info, but not worth the money.

He decided to help others with their game. I dont blame for charging, why shouldnt he. Its a sellers market. as long he is helping guys and coming from a giving frame. time is precious. he put the effort to learn and experience and practice. If you dont want to do that then pay up.

cobrastyle likes the penis

hey cobra all PUAs are trying to make money mate. that's life.

you need money in life and the more you have the better lifestyle you can live.

there's nothing wrong with making money. i mean it costs alot of money to buy a masion, have a few fast European sports cars, to have great clothers, watches etc..holidays..whatever.

what lot of guys don't realise is that each guy can go through the journey and then write his own book.

Jack seems like a great guy and i hope he makes a bit of money in life, cause the next best thing to having a few bitches around u is to be a multi-millionaire. most guys work all their life and make no REAL money!

good luck to u all. make money and fuck bitches and live a varied lifestyle

When it come down to it, time is money.

When you want someone's time to do something, in return you have to compensate them. I have a job, and believe me, if they didn't pay me money, I wouldn't do any work for them.

When you purchase one-on-one time with Jack, he's WORKING FOR YOU. Maybe it isn't the cheapest rates in the world, however it's what he considers fair. If someone feels like it's a fair rate for Jack's personal help, then they'll pay it. If they don't, they wont.

When you pay for his time, you aren't paying for this site. You're paying for HIS PERSONAL TIME. I wouldn't expect you to cut my grass for free just because you cut your own lawn without making any money. Compensation comes as a result of work.