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hello everyone :)

Where are you from? What got you interested in all this pickup stuff?

hello everyone :)

Postby alexJx on Tue Feb 24, 2009 1:13 am

im everyone im aalex im from florida kissimmee
im 16 atm soon 17(may17) and i wanna start to be a pua :)

my dating life has been kinda crappy.......but it hasnt been way to crappy
i had a girlfriend for 6-7months which took my virginity but that was long ago sadly...
i currently got a nextdoorneighbor who likes me but ....idk if i like her :roll:

my high school history

well for my first year of high school i went to all boy school (had 5-10girls but they was ugly...)
also 7th and 8th grade i was all boy school.... when i finaly went to a normal high school with alot of girls i was shy then oneday i thought about looking on the web for answers to my shyness well i managed to voercome my shyness :) but the entire year of 10th grade i had like 10friends(that went bad) now im currently in 11grade i got about 50friends or so know about 29female from school(counted :shock: )
im not shy but i tend to hide in my comfort zone alot currently
im not ugly im self confident just i tend to not leave my comfort zone but i wanna:)
i only got 1year and half left of school i dont want it to goto shame




my success with picking up girls?

well back in 8grade i had 1kiss close was at my school 1day and chatted with this girl we laughed and stuff talked for like 40mins then she left to goto some tornament so i walked her and i gave her a hug then i asked for a kiss and she gave me one :P but that was only 1time

.....about 2years ago me and my cuzion would goto mall to try and pick up the most girls ....as a game he lived walking distance from the florida mall so we go alot but we talekd to girls but never had a sucessful number close sadly

so pretty much i dont realy got much expeience with picking up girls



stuff ive read to educate my inner pua

well vie read alot i use to read alot of articles on shy fear body language watch youtube videos
then i started reading books
ive read double dating
attraction formula, how to get laid in nyc by paul janka and just recently got a book called venusian arts handbook

ive watched many youtube videos and just recently(yesturday) stumbleb across this side from the website



is anyone in your family a pua?
not realy everyone in my family is always shy to talk with girls doing stuff like "bet u wont talk to her" or "he likes u" immature stuff no one i know my age can goto a mall right now and get chicks numbers
but their is 1 semi pua in my family his name is joel hes my cousin
but i think his style of picking up chicks is weak he gets these free chat line number and gets chicks threw the chat line he can get girls and gets many bangs but 99.9% of them are ugly i seen 1nice looking girl from chat line and rest all what i consider -5 on a (ugly)1-10(hot) scale
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but their is 1guy who inspired me to wanna pick up chicks my step dad cousin (my long distant cousin?) he came down last year and i opened up to him idk why told him i suck with talking to chicks and im shy/nervous he schooled me and gave me the advice to look on my internet hes my role model in a way .....the weekend after he arrived we went to the beach and he started talking to chicks and told me how its nothing i just gotta be calm and relaxed i was in so much shock ever since my unoffical goal was to be like him


when did i wanna be a pick up artist?
well i just recently realy wanna start becuase last year at the beach was a good chance for me and my cuzion to open a set of 2girls and i totaly bitched out :( so ever since i wanted to make up for it to throw more salt on wound we both wanted to open each other but girls rarely open so they left:(


goals as a pick up artist
my goal is to be able to be comfortable in all situation with girls to go places and meet new poeple not just girls (mainly girl)
i just wanna live my life to the fullest


current progress
well im not to shy i can talk to poeple ive been exercising my social skills by saying hi to everyone who comes close to me and making small talk i live near walmart so i go their and exercise their
(also walmart is packed with chicks during the torist times i live near time shares)
so i guess most my practice game will be done at walmart(lol)
i realy wanna get good game to goto beaches and get chicks:)
also since reading books ive meet chicks in walmart not my age tho so doesnt rly count :(


anyhow im alex:)
alexJx
 
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Postby ShaMaN on Tue Feb 24, 2009 3:06 am

well u need to work on your "inner game" (confidence) first... just reading your post it sounds like your insecure.... (counting how many female friends you have?....) and really, i can't help other than to say, that you probably have no reason to be unconfident about any of that stuff. once you've got the confidence down, you'll find your more than half way over the hill.

I'd say you start an assignment, keep a journal of your daily activities and interactions, highlight the positives, and determine how you could better approach the negatives. And at the end of each entry, briefly discuss why your awsome, and how all of these things make you an amazing person, who other people (especially girls) want to be around. Even if your having a bad day... even if you think theres no reason other people would want you around.

If you dwell on your positives long enough (aswell as actually socializing (which a journal will hopefully encourage you to do, as it records your various exploits)) then you will quickly find yourself much more confident, and self assured, then you thought u could be.
-Impossible, is nothing
ShaMaN
 
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Postby alexJx on Tue Feb 24, 2009 3:52 pm

i counted how many girls i knew becuase i thought id write a small bio on myself and wanted to count how many i know before i started and in a few months
also.......is trying to pick up girls in school i goto good?
becuase if it fails wont it be awkword?
or should i talk with em on a lvl where they think i like them but not sure so im not in friendzone bu not in boyfriend zone becuase both kinda suck ^_^
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