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I never really amog guys aanyway. I just be really friendly to them and make them my friend. I offer them value - talking about something they like, or help them get girls etc.

As soon as a guy come up to me or start hitting on my date/partner, i will immediately introduce myself to them, offer my hand to shake (normally) smile, and start a new conversation- ask them a question. I do this as soon as re enter a situation or as soon as see the guy come to the situation. This does require a very good awareness of what is around you -- peripheral visison.

I do know one great amog tactic that i would use if necessary - ask them "where is your girlfriend?" or "do you have a girlfriend?" this is mainly used at clubs - so i dont use it often. I only use it when am there with a date, not on pickup. either way he answers, it will fuck him up. if says no - then you just turn it around by saying "oh, so she is at home letting you have a boys night out?" or "i thought you and that girl other there were together."

another amog tactic would be to ignore him completely - as long as you know he does not know the girl and is hitting on the girl.

another one is to ask "how do you know each other?" they will screw this up if they are ametuers. If you get asked it just say - "oh she is my sister" - funny for me cause am dark tanned skin) or "she is my personal stalker, am just confronting her for following me around the club"

Whole point of control conversations and amoging and pickup, is about leading and controlling the interactions, that means, you get other people to answer your questions and invest more in what you want, this is basically doing what you want.

anyway, i digress- sorry about length. I only use amog tactics, if the guy is really rude or disrespects me after i have been friendly to them. IF that doesnt work, i will assert that " i felt that was uncalled for and rude and immature." then leave. if with a girl, i will drag her away by her hand, or i will tell the girl "lets check this place out " and take her hand. if she doesnt come i will let her stay and walk away.

The whole point on be alpha man, is not about amggin is about getting the girl while others are trying to get the girl.

I ant got much time to go into detail but I'm naturally a sucker for bein AMOGed.

Seriously, the way I am, if someone challenges me, it really gets my back up, I feel I ave to meet the challenge or issue one back.

This is just a lose / lose situation though. By takin anyone seriously, it shows you're threatened by them and acceptin their challenge means you get dragged into their game, plus if you're pissed off you'll just end up seemin petty and probably screw up whatever point you're tryin to make.


The solution? The key to AMOGin is bein secure in yourself and not seein anyone else as a threat. Once you're in that position you can rip into whoever without the need to worry about bein challenged or whatever the fuck, you will AMOG by nature by bein non-reactive and outcome independent.

If you can get into that mindset, most things will come naturally, includin dealin with rival males.

Two words here:

Acknowledge and ignore.

It's not worth getting into a fight or an amog battle - it just makes both of you look bad - and if the guys bigger, or a better fighter, could get your ass kicked.

I prefer to make someone my friend - as Canibus said, but if that fails (ie he's being an asshole), I'll either call him out "Oh! I see, you're trying to pick her up! That's cool man, you're in there!" and then be more interesting than he is. But if I must, then I prefer to AMOG via body language.

Acknowledge the guy, shake his hand, high five, whatever and introduce yourself. Find out if they know each other, if not, continue leading the conversation, be dominant, and when the opportunity arises step between he and the girl and backturn him. If he's just standing there behind you, he's losing value the longer he just stands there - most guys eventually wander off. If he taps you and asks you to "open back up" he's losing value, if he's an asshole and you just say something like 'oh! I'm sorry, I didn't even realize you were there!' he loses value. If you have to let him back in, then continue to be interesting, and isolate the girl.

Optionally, bring him in to the conversation and use him as an impromptu wing. Let him occupy the rest of the group while you isolate. If its 2 women and he's not known to the group, then when you meet him, introduce him to the other girl in the group and then backturn him, in effect isolating him with her. This works in larger groups too.

All of that said, always a better bet to make a friend than AMOG, and given a fight or flight option, always leave, a strange girl is simply not worth a busted jaw, no matter how hot she is.