MyPUAJourney Forum

Hey guys, I'm 24 years old and I'm from the UK.

I've known about PUA stuff for a fair while now, but as my title says I'm really bad at making excuses and sitting and waiting for stuff to happen rather than getting out there and doing it. For example, I've gone through periods where I approach a lot, both at night and during the day, and then I'll go for weeks or even months without doing a single approach, making all sorts of excuses to justify it to myself. Well my days of making excuses are over.

The reason I've decided to join this board is to keep me motivated along the way. I think that if I post regularly and have the support of like-minded guys it'll help me out a lot. Also, if I say I'm going to do something (like approach X number of girls) on the board then it'll give me some pressure/motivation into doing it and avoiding excuses.

As for my history with the fairer sex, well I've had one girlfriend who let's just say wasn't the best I've also had a few short-term things and a couple of one-night stands, mostly through luck and alcohol, but at least a couple of them were not bad Recently when I've been approaching, I've tried to use natural methods, along the lines of Jack rather than routines etc.

I'm looking forward to taking part on the board here and getting to know everyone.

Peace,
scottydawg

Welcome I was trying jack method but unfortunatelly it doesnt work for me like for most guys ( Im not native english speaker) so to do approaches i need to fucking learn stuff by heart word by word and im creating it in my home because if im not doing it i go blank really quick. Pretty much i have to do same dirty job like mystery did there is only a difference he was discovering new stuff and i know that it exist but im not able to execute it like native speakers.

You know you should keep a log and also post whenever you go out and don't dare to approach. When you had no succes.

Wherebouts in the UK you from mate?

Stop frettin about it mate, you're doin your head in by pressurisin yourself too much. Rather than do that even more, take your foot off the gas now and then and look at where you are.

If tryin to approach so far isn't workin for you, try a different tack. Find women in a social settin you're comfortable with. Organise a night out or a party or sumat and invite women you know who're likely to bring attractive females with them. Fuck, tell them to. I've done that. Bring women to a settin where you feel you can game and ave loads of social proof. Read AFC Adam's stuff and know what to do in these scenarios and they'll practically come to you man.

Cheers for the welcome guys. Shirley, I'm from Glasgow - I'm gonna take a wild guess and say yourre a Yorkshireman right?

I wouldn't say I'm pressuring myself too much, just the opposite really. What I do is get lazy and complacent instead of gettin excited about improving. If I get a couple of numbers and the interactions went really well, instead of keeping going I'll say 'fuck it' and not do any approaches for a few weeks. I wouldn't say pressure's the problem, it's more laziness but thanks 4 the advice anyway mate.

Mr, thats actually a great idea. I just need guys like you to bust my ass when I don't do it

Soil, I'm definitely not an expert PUA or anything but I have improved. I know what you mean about going blank. There are some good threads on here about transitioning - they might help you out a bit.

I can't bust your ass man. since I don't know when you go out, I can't tell when you didn't write a report.

Me myself I write reports always on my computer, I just don't always post them online. I still got weeks worth of stuff to post on this forum, not sure if anyone reads it. I just feel like when I post it online there's more incentive to keep improving.

Cheers for the welcome guys. Shirley, I'm from Glasgow - I'm gonna take a wild guess and say yourre a Yorkshireman right?

Nah pal, I've lived just south of Manchester for quite a few years now but I was born and raised in the same city as yourself! Well, lived in Glasgow for a bit but spent quite a few years around the Motherwell area. Was up there just a couple weeks ago in fact.

Fair enough pal, everyone's got their own routine to get themselves pumped, I listen to music meself but it takes more to assimiliate that proactive mindset, I read a lot of NLP meself.

cheers mr, thats my approach as well, I'm building up enough entries to have a fully fleshed out memoir, 10's of thousands of words