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I know I made a stupid topic called "IS STEALING A GIRLFRIEND BAD" which I already knew the answer to I already told you a lot on that topic but here is the stuff you didn't know.I am really attractive but I never got the girl because I was too nervous and didn't know what to say (still don't).My parents didn't teach me anything and I feel stupid too and too emarrassed (I know I shouldn't).My AA isn't bad at all but my thought proccess screws me up because I got hurt a lot and I think "What is the point?they are too busy for me why bother?" I need stop that and at least make an better efforts and will go farther.I do have more chances but most of them are adults like in their 20's I would feel more comfortable if I was 18 (my DOB is 3/30/92).I tried this opener call "Blue Hair" it goes like this "When I turned 18 should I get my hair dyed blue?" I used it twice The first time I used it (The girl I like) went really well she thought it was cool and the other girl thought it was stupid.Do you think openers can detect someone you like by it's reaction maybe not LOL!My best friend (Trance aka Jimmy)I help him a lot and he gets the girls by my advice which annoys me because I screwed up my life and have less opportunites than most but that will change for the better.I want to learn a much as I can before I become a PUA so I know what I am doing so I don't make an ass of myself anymore.I really take the saying"Beauty is only skindeep" to heart it doesn't matter what you look like but how confident and what you say.If the Worlds heaviest man can get the girl so can I!I feel like I am a threat to males (I know what I am about to type is too ridiculous) because girls flirt with me even if they have bfs and makes them mad.Yesterday I went to a rehearsals (for a shortfilm oh yeah I forgot to tell you I am an actor) and all day I looked at their cleavages all day and this HB8 flirts with me all day but she kinda freaks me out though.I need advice on something that I can't seem to understand,Do I become friends with a hot girl ask(with a boyfriend or likes someone other than me) to hangout with her friends then make moves on her friends or don't even become friends at all what should I do?

P.s. I am sorry for being irrational can you forgive me?

Nowt to forgive, chill out man.

If you're not comfortable seducin hot girls yet, then it's fine to ave hot girls as friends, that'll make you more attractive and get you used to speakin to fit birds. As long as you don't get one-itus and get obsessed with them

I'm like you though pal, I'm quite a good-lookin, well-balanced fella. Or at least, that's ow I come across. I can be insanely nervous and self conscious and I'll come across cool as a cucumber, I've always been that way. So I've often had fit birds open me and didn't know what to say, but it always came across as disinterest.

Keep at this pal. Work on your inner game and learn shit but it won't do shit unless you practise it mate, that's the key to improvin. Good luck!

Thanks I appreciate it!You see I am corfortable talking to people and I am trying to get over being a victim of Circumstance I got on-itis a lot but I am able to overcome that now.I realized that I need to create opportunities not wait on them.I will give future field reports and let everyone how things are going PEACE OUT!