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got a number from this girl in one of my classes, shes a hb 9 gives me iois from the way she looks at me we were supposed to meet up for "studying" supposedly but she came up with an excuse she was sick now when i see her in my next class she keeps looking at me and then i send her a txt saying " u dnt look very sick", her "mmm : )", me " ur too happy...", her "lol thanks : )" i get mixed up and dnt know what to say after.......help me out guys

she likes you, go hang out with her dumbass. (from grimlink) go and do the study session and kiss close her.

see i been wanting to hang out with her since that day i still send her txts to keep in contact, the other day i sent her
me: "hey study buddy"
her: "hey how are you = )"
me: "good...u gotta make it up to me from the other day"
her: " i thou u were already being helped from that other girl in ur group..."
me: "i dnt go around asking random ppl for help.....u should feel special i asked u to review with me i think ur kinda smart.....HOPEFULLY"
her: "haha okay"

then after that i didnt reply back

I think this is manipulative in using a studying session as a pretext for a date. I am sure she sees through it, thats why she flaked. rmemeber if she wants to go, she will go. IF you want to fuck her then go on a date.

There is this idea which says, bring her into your world, do the things you like to do together. But study sessions i believe are different. they are more like work.

last text- you said you thought she was smart - wrong thing to say, even if it was a joke, not a good thing. you should have stuck with "you got to make it up to me" ask her how she will make it up to you.

ok thanks man, how should i open it up again with her,
thx for the help

OK, for everyone. Officially, Study sessions are a craptastic idea for a day 2. I don't care how easy they are to set up and have a girl agree to. the idea of a day 2 is twofold 1) it should be great fun and 2) it should let a girl into your world a bit to discover more about who you are. A study session does neither.

I'm not saying never study with a girl, but don't presume to think that it will be a great way to get her to like you. Maybe others disagree with me, but to me, a study session as date screams afc.

Just my 2 cents.

she texted me again "hey" i didnt reply back but later in class saw her and her body language was completely giving away that she wanted me, she was looking at me the entire class and i cought her doing it a couple of times, after class i approached her n said,
me: "u gotta stop looking at me in class, i can tell ur the stalker type"
her: "haha mayb im just tryin to get ur attention"
right after that i kiss closed her in front of her friend
thx for the help

nice work, what did you set up to escalate from the kiss?