MyPUAJourney Forum

so Ive been trying out step one the past few days . its funny some times its like no big deal other times i drop the ball but hay it does seem to be getting better. even before i found this sight id kinda be working on this (guess i figured out as much on my own) never had any short term goals so now i try to approach x number of people win I'm say in a store or what ever.

The whole point of the exercise was to lose that approach anxiety, or rather get used to it and not let it hinder you when talking to girls. Also just get used to talking to girls that you are attractive to.

Girls are so use to guys trying it on with them, that a lot suspect that any guy that approaches if they do not know them is trying to pick them up.

What mentalist does, is that he asks their opinion and some info and leaves. That totally screws a girls perception, cause she be thinking, why didnt he get my number or show more interest in me. Its the fact that he didnt go in for the number or pick up which makes girls more interested in you, as most guys do it the wrong way.

I suspect that the girls were probably into him (the 5 set), and would have been more if he had continued the conversatoin, been more fun, transitioned into some thing interesting.

Look at how jack does it, he shows that he is an attractive person from the beginning. All his comminication (body lang, voice, words) all display attractive qualities which women want. It doesnt matter what he says, its how it is commuicated. Whether direct or indirect. The personaility shines through. He shows that he is the man, fun, interesting, unpredicatable, social, etc. he is not overawed by the beauty of the girl.. this is what he is part of what he is trying to help mentalist get over

ya I'm with ya just still getting over the aa still . i did have a fun little chat with a girl in the mall that was selling dead sea salts . she kinda looked at me and i felt like a bit a steel being puled to a magnet lol . no expectations just out getting comfortable