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ALRIGHT!!! this is the main problem i have with talking to gurls, i dont have anything to say to them when i first meet them. should i talk about the people around the area? o and by the way the only sarging im allow to do is at the mall because im only 17. so yea, i dont know wat should i talk about? i dont like using canned material because im afriad that they already hered it b4. So i figured that i should just walk to a girl and keep it original, and i think that ill learn better that way, also my friends will be holding me back should i juss start talking about random things? any advise? also im sarging alone.

Alone is much harder... BUT if you learn to do it alone you'll become better faster I think... unless you don't have the balls to do anything but even then if you can master your AA alone, then you'll become even stronger then when you practice with a friend.

Yes you can just try shit out man, DON"T think you'll be succesfull the first time. Give yourself 2 months to completely FAIL at every attempt you make. Just go in with that thought and try out different things, That way you'll be less likely to feel like you failed. I know it's hard. I don't even do daygame I only seduce drunk girls when I'm drunk myself in clubs etc. Anyway... what might be easier for you (if you're allowed) is to go out on the streets on a thirsday/friday/saturday night when all the clubs close and talk to drunk girls In the U.S that's around 2 AM... lol sounds like bad advice but seriously it works.

Once you start talking with a girl try to LISTEN to what she says so you can start new threads on certain things she said.

Like I said don't think you'll find the magic key the first day, but just try shit out. You wouldn't think so, but you'll prolly be making someone's day.

this great link was posted earlier at my question

http://www.fark.com

good way to get funny stories

just be yourself Man......you will develop your own style in the process...Good luck

You got to be more specific. ARe you able to start a conversation with her? Is the problem after wards? do you get stuck doing interview question?

One peice advice from dale carngie.

"be genuinely interested in the other person"

ask her questions, expand upon that with statements, relate to her about that, find out how she felt about it.

Go through the post on the main section and there are some posts label "conversation ideas" and "writing stories" search for these for some ideas.

Live and interesting life, and talk about it when it comes up.