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Hey guys out there,
today i went into the city with my wing called RTFManuel (also registered in this forum).
We wanted to really do this challenge because we really want to come over the approach anxiety.
On the way to the subway we approached a few ppl.. and at this time i was really really scared .. i dont know. I was very nervous. 1 time i said to a stranger: "Hey, how are you doing" .. he said: "fine" and i was so nervous that i said "thanks" LOL. but nevermind we kept on approaching. Later on we went to the shopping store and everyone of us had to approach at least 10 ppl in a row. Manuel started and did it very well i must say . And he obviously had more confidence than before. So i tried aswell. I also approached a lil' 2 set ... they were hb's ^^ but i just did it haha
They didnt answer and looked like 'do we know him'? But nevermind it was cool. After this we went to the streets of the city and we wanted to approach 20 ppl in a row. And we did it that was great. After this Manuel did also 4 nippel challenges .. i think 2 with succeed but i was just too fkin scared .. but next time i'll try of course
So he did the nippel thing and i just did again 20 ppl.
All in all .. i have approached like 80 ppl i think
It was great .. man .. thanks jackcoxwell for your help and challenges. I am glad to have done this challenge and now i have a LOT more confidence than at the beginning.
Manuel will post his report too, because i don't know how he felt and all this shit .. you know.

So thanks, especially to jackcoxwell.
best regards,
chris

hey guys
actually i don´t have to add a lot to this report...
but i jsut wanted to say again: I´m glad that I/we did it and that we did so well though it was the first time I EVER did approaches and after those "hey, how r u?" approaches I felt pretty comfortable and was in a good mood, so I thought to myself I could this nipple challenge and though I thought I would never succeed I did this challenge and managed to get 4/6 approached girls touching my nipple I lifted my shirt as well, but I told them it was a bet which makes the situation a lot easier...I´ll try to get them touching my nipple without a bet or a competition as a reason for doing it, but for no reason at all^^ I haven´t thought that it could be so easy to approach people and after all I feel a LOT more confident as before
Thanks Jack for this wonderful step-by-step approach training and good luck to all you guys out there who wanna try it as well. Just do it! You don´t have to fear anything^^
so far RTFManuel

Wow, guys I'm really impressed! That's awesome you got out there and did it. See, crushing your anxiety can be fun, it's not scary once you get going!

Ye, in fact it was fun .. especially in Germany because ppl in Germany aren't very friendly and their faces are like .. bam they're godlike
Unfortunately we couldn't make a vid, because this would
contrave against a law in Germany :/ this sux pretty much.

But nevermind, i hope there'll come the next challenges soon

Chris

Nice work guys, I'm gonna try and do this tommorow or on the weekend with a friend cause i'm too scared to do it by myself lol.

both of us got the same problem, that´s way we did it together and kept motivatin us
good luck and have fun

yesterday I´ve done a few "hey how r u?" approaches by myself, had a few questions to normal people like how to spell certain words and stuff, but then I wanted to try my first real indirect approach (I mean I wanted to get as far as I could get and not getting my sentences said and then dropping immediately out of this situation), but as it took me a long time ( bout half an hour) to find a situation that fits to my level, I was under an an enormous pressure which was really bad for the try, of course. So i got dropped out after my opener and I think 3 other sentences...another reason maybe was that the girls were extremely young (bout 14) and couldn´t handle the situation of getting approached by a stranger.
And the same night in the disco I tried to dance up on one of the hottest girls in the disco as I thought I got lots of IOIs, but I failed again, properly because of my body language which isn´t good yet.
But though I got rejected twice I´m glad to have done this and today´s a new day and I will got out and try again. I hope I´ll be able to tell you positive acknowledgment at the end of the day
So far Manuel

no homo or anything but if a random guy asked another guy to touch his nipple would he do it? obviously no so i think in conclusion girls WANT to touch your nipple. with this in mind i shall go nipple sarging...

omg wrote:i think in conclusion girls WANT to touch your nipple.

good point ... haha..

the only thing that keeps me from nipple sarging is that i feel as though it's sexual harassment and I don't want to get 5 to 25 years in jail. today, some dude that worked at girls gone wild got 5 to 25 years in prison for groping a woman.