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Went there with a few friends, and we all took turns doing it. We approached a lot of people and said hi, hows it going. BUT what we learned is that a lot of people are bastards and ignore you or look at you like this

Hey guys, we went to the mall again and actually stopped people and opened them(I opened a set of two girls and some girls working). we learned that people are actually nice, so thats pretty cool. A tip for approaching a random set, is to just ignore your mind till you actually stop them, because it bring up second thoughts and will make you back down.

my goal is to be able to approach anyone I see and be able to open them, by this monday! it will happen

Yep I tagged along with this guy, hes a friend. I also went along and did the approaches by saying hi. Many were looking at us like we hated them or something yet some smiled or nod their heads, got a few Hi's back but they were not the majority of it. The second day we started going to another mall and do open approach's Like he said you just let it all out and go with the flow. I went up to these 2 girls and instead of opinions I gave them a compliment. I said "Have you ever had a random person walk up to you and give you a compliment" They said "No not untill now" So I said "Alright then I guess I would like to say you are both beautiful and to take it and enjoy your day" They smiled and said Thank you. The problem was I forgot to do body language and I was shaking in my mind but it feels all clear and easy to go out and do more. I feel my fears are a little light now and maybe I can think under pressure.

Went there today, it was pretty much empty. Me and my friends passed about 3 or 4 opportunities, we had some AA left. But I decided to just do it and opened up a moving set and then a worker. I've noticed its easier to talk to people now, because the first time I opened a set of girls I was shaking but, it was easy this time.

I understand now, that the more you do it, the more better you become. My AA is down to a minimum now . It's funny because if I never seen this website I wouldn't ever have done anything about this, but now I am so its awesome.

very soon, I will go for a number close...

On Tuesday we went to the mall again, and that day was the best, I went up to 2 girls and asked about getting cheap pants and they smiled and we talked about random stuff and where I was from so then all of a sudden they asked If I wanted to tag along with them to help me and them buy some stuff so I followed them into 2 stores but then I had to eject cuse it got into a awkward silence and my friends were waiting so I said I got to go, I couldn't get a number close cuse I didn't have a phone.

dude why did u do that...u saw the vid with jack commenting about the silence...that's all u had to do...or u're in a mall and a store with two girls just look at an item and you could say a couple of things here like:
1. Hmm...that doesn't look good
2. i think this would look good on u
3. pick a woman's article of clothing off the shelf put near u as if u were seeing if it would suit u, turn to the girls and say "do u think this would look good on me" as a joke they'll get a kick out of it...or should

Rompa Palli wrote:dude why did u do that...u saw the vid with jack commenting about the silence...that's all u had to do...or u're in a mall and a store with two girls just look at an item and you could say a couple of things here like:
1. Hmm...that doesn't look good
2. i think this would look good on u
3. pick a woman's article of clothing off the shelf put near u as if u were seeing if it would suit u, turn to the girls and say "do u think this would look good on me" as a joke they'll get a kick out of it...or should

Well, they wernt even looking at clothes for them, one of them was looking at backpacks for their brother and they went all silence for a long ass time, even to each other. I tried talking out loud but they all just stayed silent awkward. I tell them to get this and that and they agreed, I asked questions but I felt it was time to eject, don't act like you know what was going on was first handed there. I learned my mistakes and I correct it, I'm not even at a experienced level yet. We all don't do everything the first time perfect, We learn the mistake, go back to the video we learn and do it right again.

chronicles, in you post about asking them if they had been given a random compliment, after they said no, i would have gone on with C&F (cocky funny) thing, like "well remind if there is anythign to compliment you on" or " i will remember to " or " sure after you compliment me" or "if you trying to pick me up this wont do, you got to compliment me" (body language - just give a sly smile after 5 secs, stay still and relaxed) after the shock on their faces, or laughs, then you can go in to a convo, "so what you be doing up here? waiting for random guys to compliment you??". sometimes they will leave but you dont care, cause there are plenty more girls around.

overall though to both of you, welll done on getting out there and practising.

An idea to get used to girls, join a club (street dacning) or gym, where you are in the presence of lots of women, and have to interact with them. builds up your confidence and social skills.

Well, they wernt even looking at clothes for them, one of them was looking at backpacks for their brother and they went all silence for a long ass time, even to each other. I tried talking out loud but they all just stayed silent awkward. I tell them to get this and that and they agreed, I asked questions but I felt it was time to eject, don't act like you know what was going on was first handed there. I learned my mistakes and I correct it, I'm not even at a experienced level yet. We all don't do everything the first time perfect, We learn the mistake, go back to the video we learn and do it right again.[/quote]

lol well if you had put that little piece of information in there then i probably wouldn't have said anything, and i was only trying to help that's all no need to get offensive although ya i may have misunderstood what u wrote...

Rompa Palli wrote:Well, they wernt even looking at clothes for them, one of them was looking at backpacks for their brother and they went all silence for a long ass time, even to each other. I tried talking out loud but they all just stayed silent awkward. I tell them to get this and that and they agreed, I asked questions but I felt it was time to eject, don't act like you know what was going on was first handed there. I learned my mistakes and I correct it, I'm not even at a experienced level yet. We all don't do everything the first time perfect, We learn the mistake, go back to the video we learn and do it right again.

lol well if you had put that little piece of information in there then i probably wouldn't have said anything, and i was only trying to help that's all no need to get offensive although ya i may have misunderstood what u wrote...

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sorry bout gettin mad lol the internet can sometime make mixed signals cuse you don't know the other person's response personally lol. But thank you for the advice and the other user's advice, I'll correct my mistakes =]

sorry bout gettin mad lol the internet can sometime make mixed signals cuse you don't know the other person's response personally lol. But thank you for the advice and the other user's advice, I'll correct my mistakes =][/quote]

lol no problem, just don't let it happen again or else haha