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... 24 nipple tests (not fucking one wanted)

and asked 7 girls this year to be my valentine after a convo with them

Hoping the aa will decease :>

cheers all

well done.

As long as you know, that AA never disappears, you just dont focus on it.

Try evaluate how you feel when after you did the frist approach, then after every approach.

did it become easier? How long did you wait to approach? Did hurt being ignored/rejected?

the whole point is to build confidence through experience - thus gainning certainty.

The certainty that its alrigth to approach women and start a conversation. The certainty that women are normally people not queens or goddess and they are above you. The certainty that you deserve a women. the certainty that women will not hurt you.

am sure you can think of more.

Next just approach girls and have a normal conversation, its not going to be hard, cause you have talked about stuff which would to some seem inappropriate. Do this in shops, bookstores, cafes, where you can start a conversation easily

Tbh, while doin hundreds of approaches might give you experience, everyone learns in different ways. Confidence is a behaviour that needs to be internalised for me, I can't be convinced of. Approaches don't really affect it, if I'm in state I won't care about approachin, if I'm in a bad state they'll seem impossible and I'm much more likely to fuck em up.

Internalisin that in state feelin, bein that confident person deep down and adoptin the outlook on myself and life that can create that confidence is what works for me. Approaches don't really change owt.